CUTTING THE CORDS

Have you ever reflected on how your thoughts and imagination about a person, place, object, or event can evoke a spectrum of emotions? Each memory or vision has the power to stir different feelings within you—while some conjure joy and warmth, others can bring forth sadness or nostalgia. Ever wondered! Why is this happening?

Let's Explore...

What is a Cord?

A cord, in spiritual terms, refers to an energetic connection that binds us to people, places, or situations, often formed through emotional, physical, or spiritual interactions. These cords can be positive, nurturing our relationships and enhancing our well-being. However, when a cord becomes detrimental, it can drain our energy, create unhealthy dependencies, or anchor us to negative experiences. Such connections may inhibit our personal growth and pursuit of our higher purpose. Recognizing these cords is the first step toward liberation.

How is a cord formed?

Science has now confirmed that everything that exists in this universe is energy and nothing else. Everyone and everything that we sense through our sense organs is energy vibrating at different frequencies. Our thoughts and emotions are also energy capable of bringing about a change in our internal as well as external expressions.

Every thought we entertain about a person, event, or object evokes an emotional reaction from within us. For instance, contemplating the birth of a baby floods our hearts with happiness and joy, while thoughts of death can elicit fear and grief. This duality illustrates that when our thoughts are connected to positive experiences, we manifest emotions like love, trust, worthiness, peace, and prosperity. Conversely, reflections tied to negative experiences lead us to express feelings of sadness, hatred, anger, and guilt. These emotional responses are intricately linked to the memories we associate with each thought, and these connections are what we refer to as "cords" in energetic or spiritual terms.

These cords can emerge during significant life events, exchanges of intense emotions, or even prolonged relationships. Identifying an energetic cord typically involves paying attention to feelings of attachment or dependency that may arise in relation to specific people. If you find yourself frequently thinking about someone, feeling their emotions as if they were your own, or sensing an inexplicable pull towards them, it may indicate the presence of an energetic cord.

Types of Cords

Through my experience, I have identified four different types of cords.

1. Outgoing Cords: Outgoing cords are energetic connections that extend from within us to others, events, or objects, often influenced by our emotions. These cords can manifest feelings such as love, compassion, hatred, or anger, establishing a link that reflects our internal state. The beauty of these connections lies in our ability to harness and control them, as we are the originators of these cords.

2. Incoming Cords: Incoming cords represent the invisible emotional connections that can form between individuals, often influencing our feelings and experiences. For instance, you might find yourself thinking of someone just before they call, showcasing the power of these connections. Similarly, walking into a new environment or meeting someone for the first time can evoke strong emotional reactions; if those feelings are positive, it suggests that you’re resonating with the good energy of the person or space. Conversely, if you sense negativity, it may be wise to remove yourself from that situation. Protecting ourselves from incoming cords is vital, as they can affect our emotional well-being. An example of incoming cords is the concept of the "evil eye," which embodies the harmful energy that can be directed toward us by others.

3. Self Cords: Self cords are unique in that they both originate from within us and terminate in us, reflecting our internal emotional landscape. Each of us experiences a spectrum of moments, from our proud successes to our painful failures. While successes can boost our self-esteem and foster positive feelings, failures often evoke negativity and self-doubt. In these instances, we become both the source and the recipient of these emotions, highlighting the influential role that self cords play in shaping our lives. Their power is twofold; they can uplift our spirits or lead to personal ruin. Thus, nurturing a positive self-image and cultivating self-compassion is essential to harnessing the potential of these cords, enabling us to thrive despite life's challenges.

4. Cord towards God: This is a combination of Outgoing Cords and Self Cords. The concept of our connection to God is intricately tied to our personal experiences and emotions. Whether one identifies as a believer or a non-believer, the energy we cultivate towards the divine significantly shapes our outlook on life. Those who experience more successes may find themselves harboring positive sentiments, feeling grateful for the divine influence in their lives. Conversely, individuals grappling with a series of failures might struggle with resentment or disappointment, questioning the presence and benevolence of God. Words like hope, luck, and fate serve as reflections of our acknowledgment of a higher power at play. Even when one feels they are exerting their best efforts yet not achieving desired outcomes, it is highly likely that you are holding energy against God. Negative feelings often stem from the deeply ingrained belief that God is the source of ALL existence. When faced with numerous negative experiences or failures, a natural tendency emerges to place blame, and if no one else seems responsible, God becomes the target. This raises a critical question: can one truly accept blessings from someone perceived as the root of their miseries, pain and struggles? The answer is often no, leading individuals to unwittingly reject their own success and prosperity. It’s essential to recognize, however, that we are the architects of our own lives (Self Cords). We plan, execute, and manage our paths, asserting that we are, in essence, the creators of our reality.

Wait, There's a Catch Here!

In life, it's easy to fall into the trap of viewing ourselves as victims of our circumstances, attributing our current struggles to the wrongs committed against us by others. This perspective can be comforting, offering a sense of justification for our feelings of frustration and helplessness. However, if you take a moment to observe carefully, you may discover a hidden message within this narrative.

Pay Attention!

Life is all about emotions at play. If you observe carefully, you will find that the other person, event or object is only a trigger which is invoking a certain set of emotions within you, which in turn results in a certain behavioural pattern. For example, "Your Success" would make you feel happy and proud. One of your friends would be feeling happy for you and would hug and congratulate you. There also might be another friend who would be envious and jealous about you. So, if you observe carefully, the event is one "Your Success", but you can see all four types of cords here. Self-Cord makes you feel happy and proud, your first friend is adding to this energy by expressing his happiness (Incoming Cord), while the second friends feelings might be draining your energy if you are not shielded (Incoming Cord) and if you are a believer in God, you might be thanking Him for you achievement (Outgoing Cord + Cord towards God). These events become memories as time passes by, but the emotions associated with them still remain with us always in our present, holding the potential to invoke a certain response when triggered.

A memory associated with a happy event will trigger positive emotions. Conversely, a painful experience will trigger negative emotions. It is crucial here to understand that it is not the event itself causing this pain; rather, it is the lingering emotions tied to that memory. These negative associations (cords) can feel overwhelming, although they are rooted in the past. If these triggers and emotions are held on to for a long time, they can ultimately manifest into physical discomfort leading to pain and illnesses. Higher the intensity of the negative emotions, higher is the intensity of the pain and illness. While your thoughts and emotions don't affect the other person, event or object, it is only you and your life which is impacted.

So, what's the remedy?

The remedy is very simple. Just follow the instructions below to feel the change.

Step 1: Relax yourself by inhaling and exhaling deeply 2-3 times and then close your eyes. Focus on any one event of the past, the memory of which invokes pain and discomfort in you.

Step 2: Imagine a big balloon in front you filled with helium gas ready to fly. One end of the rope is tied to the balloon, while you are holding the other end of the rope.

Step 3: Now visualize that all the sounds, visuals, emotions, everything associated with from that event are getting transferred into the balloon.

Step 4: Once you are satisfied that everything associated with that painful event has been transferred into the balloon, visualize yourself cutting the rope with a big sharp scissor at one go. The rope (cord) is cut and now the balloon is flying high towards the sun.

Step 5: Visualize the balloon colliding with the sun and BOOM! it busts turning everything into ashes and the ashes vanishing into the air including the other portion of the rope with which you were holding the balloon setting you free.

Step 6: Now focus on any event from your life that brings you joy and happiness. Enjoy the feelings from that event for some time. Observe your breath and emotions now. How are you feeling?

Step 7: Take a deep breath and slowly open your eyes and try to recall that event. What is the intensity of the emotions now? Has it gone completely or there is some intensity still remaining? If there is any intensity remaining, repeat the exercise once again.

Repeat the exercise with a different memory next time. Address only one memory/event on one single day. Profound energy shift takes place when you perform this exercise and so you should give sometime for the new energies to assimilate and settle before you address another issue.

Conclusion:

As I have mentioned above, everything around us is energy and so are our emotions. The law of thermodynamics applies here as well, i.e., Energy can neither be created nor destroyed; rather it can change from one form to another. Similarly, our negative emotions can be transformed into positive ones just by changing our perception towards the events of our life and willing to let go anything that is not serving our higher interests. Recognizing that we have the power to change our circumstances, despite the past, can empower us to take control of our present and shape our future. Instead of dwelling on the wrongs done to us, we can focus on our own choices and actions, transforming our victimhood into resilience and strength. Embracing this shift in perspective can lead to profound personal growth in all aspects of life.